- Put God above all else.
- Make seeking the truth a lifelong goal.
- Don’t fixate on pleasing other people.
- True friends will accept you for who you are, even the ugly parts.
- Dating is wildly overrated.
- But, there are many comforts to being in a relationship.
- Never stay with someone who doesn’t show you they value you.
- Never date someone with the idea that you can change them.
- Know what true self-care is (eating a diet that makes you feel energized, exercising regularly, being intentional about mental health) and practice it.
- Understand that everyone grows at different rates. Respect your journey and those of the people you come into contact with, too.
- There will always be things you want that seem too frivolous, or a waste of money. Focus on the bigger picture: Does it bring you joy? And will it break the bank? If the answers are yes/no, then spring for it. Life is short, and the small things are what make it special.
- Know the difference between a necessity and a luxury, and spend your money judiciously. Don’t get caught up trying to keep up with the Joneses.
- Invest in your true relationships, no matter where life takes you. Call and send thoughtful notes to those you love.
- Practice gratitude each day, out loud.
- When you feel slighted by someone, try to imagine their situation and what could have caused them to treat you like that.
- Extend grace to all, especially to those you dislike.
- Be open to criticism, and work on your weaknesses.
- Forgive yourself for mistakes made in the past, and offer others the same forgiveness.
- Be open to trying new things, and challenge yourself to step outside your comfort zone.
- Be genuine. People will take notice.
- Nurture your relationships with family as much as you can. In the end, they will always stand by you.
- Learn about your finances, and find a good system for managing money and investing in your and your family’s future.
- Be generous, knowing everything you have is a gift from God.
- Understand and come to terms with your failures. It’s how you will learn to succeed the next time.
- Believe that God is good, no matter what.
A Life That's Good 